Dr Pam Spurr

Get sensual!

Get sensual!

1)     does wearing sexy lingerie at work build anticipation towards sex that night?

"Not only does wearing special underwear prime us mentally to anticipate a sexy evening of pleasure, but it also feels good against our skin. As the skin is stimulated by the sexy feel of lingerie throughout the day, the feel-good hormone oxytocin is produced making us want to bond with our lover."

2)      Why does a strong goodbye kiss in the morning keep your partner thinking off you all day and how it will build up anticipation for later that day?

"A strong kiss on the lips in the morning imprints on our Psyche something that is highly memorable. The stronger and more passionate the kiss the deeper it’s embedded in our memory and we’re more likely to recall it throughout the day. An ordinary goodbye kiss in the morning is easily forgotten so make sure you hold your lover tightly, and kiss her square on the lips, so she savours this moment until she sees you again."

3) Why you should buy nice bedding/make the bedroom luxurious?

 "Your bedroom should always be associated with pleasure. It is well known that men are incredibly visual creatures but women are too. If her eye-line is drawn to untidy piles of clothes, papers and books scattered around, and mugs and dirty plates on the floor it distracts her from what should be the purpose of being in your bedroom - enjoying having sensational sex with you! Also a luxurious choice of bedding and furnishings will signal to her subconscious that you care about creating an erotic environment for you and for her."