New year, new sex life!
New Year, new sex life! Questions and answers:
* how can you ensure you have your best sex ever in the New Year?
The best way to ensure you have sensational sex in the New Year is to be open and let your lover know that you want to rekindle things. Instigate some honest and loving communication where you “take five” and tell him the favourite things in your sex life and throw-in one extra thing you'd like to try. Likewise ask him the same - what's his favourite things you do and what other thing that he liked try. Also try something new on a monthly basis. You use a new part of your body in foreplay like nuzzling your nose around the back of his ear and sensitive neck skin. Or bend forward and arouse his skin by swishing your hair down to his abdomen and between his thighs. It only has to be a little gesture like get a bit daring during a restaurant date and go commando (knickerless!). Discreetly under the table, so no one sees, move his hand up your leg. Adding in a bit of fun and spice like this can make all the difference.
* if your sex life has been lacking - or completely absent - because of stress, etc, what quick fixes/sex resolutions can you make to turn things around?
Quick-fire solutions to a lacklustre sex life include enjoying a bit of quickie sex - that doesn't have to be full sex. Let your partner know you’re up for five minutes of fun here and there that doesn't have to involve going all the way. You could enjoy a bit of oral pleasure or manual stimulation. Sometimes agreeing to quick sex not only de-stresses you but can kick-start a flagging sex life.
* how can you ensure that you stick to your resolutions?
Give yourself the time to enjoy love and lust with your partner. Say No to demands on your time that cause you stress. Just as you schedule in times to keep fit at the gym or doing your favourite sport, you should make regular dates with your lover. Agree some times for some fun and sex and make them cast-iron in your diary.