First Time Sex & Threesomes - Info For Guys!
2 Dilemmas: First Time Sex & Threesomes
Come on, lads, it's actually very easy to give her such a good time the first night you have sex together that you really have nothing to worry about.
For starters, focus on her pleasure! Believe me, if you think her different erogenous zones are hot by focusing your intention on each and every one in turn - from her cleavage, nipples, stomach, bum and thighs - she'll think you're even hotter.
All you have to do is linger over each one. Take time gently kissing, licking and sucking her pleasure zones. Every so often whisper to her asking if it feels good.
Then fill her in on what rocks your world. As long as you're not demanding about it (unless you're playing a bit of a kinky sex game and that’d take a lot of confidence your first night together!) it’ll give her confidence that you're telling her exactly the sort of touch and pressure you want to feel.
Taking turns giving each other loads of sexy attention is going to guarantee a sizzling first night together. When it finally comes to going all the way to keep it slow and sensual and she'll love it!
How to broach a threesome -
Whenever you want to try something different and kinky with her just make sure you don't rush out of her “comfort zone”. This is when you two have become pretty comfortable having sex together.
Begin by introducing that thing you want to try - like a threesome - in fantasy sex chats. When you're messing around and say something like, "I've got this amazing fantasy of you and me with a third person!" As she wants to hear some details. Then talk her through a really scorching scenario that’ll get her really turned on.
As with everything new don't rush it - and another time you're together ask if she'd like to describe a fantasy three-way that she might think about.
Once you’re both comfortable talking about such fantasies you can ask her if she'd ever consider doing it. Make sure she feels confident that you really care about her and are simply looking for something to really spice things up for both of you.
If she backs off from the idea don't pressure her. You've got to respect her feelings if you care for her. And if you only want to have the sex with someone who's willing to experiment then maybe she's not the right girl for you.
A word of warning - I hate to blow your fantasy wide open but often these things are better as a fantasy then trying them out in real life!