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Very excited to share my interview about some of my erotic paintings with you...

I gave the lovely people at Mystery Vibes an interview about my paintings and especially the erotic ones. Including how important it is to know your own body so that you can have real pleasure with your partner.
 
 
And you'll find some unique sex toys on their site for the tech-savvy lover.
 
Lots of love, Pam x
 


Four reasons why you might still be single...

 
I've worked as a date coach (one of my many hats) for about 20 years and there are recurrent reasons I hear singles mention about why they didn't see someone after two or three dates.
 
Here are some of those key reasons in my latest Wingman Dating App column.
 
Be honest with yourself, if these apply to you and be aware of them so you don't miss out on someone special.
 
I want you to avoid...
 
Happy dating, Pam x
 
 
 


Excited to launch my affordable gift of art collection...

I’m so excited to tell you about my Sentiment-painting journey! This is a wonderful way to give a gift of art where once you might’ve given a beautiful bouquet or luxury box of chocolates.

Pre-order this personal gift on my homepage - select "Art Gallery" and then select "Sentiment Collection"!

Here's all about it...

The Bickerton-Grace Gallery's created the unique Sentiment process.

They take a full-size painting and expertly cut it into small pieces, before glazing and mounting each piece on a 24 carat gold gilded base, in a bespoke wood frame. Each finished piece is 5 x 5 inches.

My painting Renewing Waters, has been prepared and is available to purchase as a piece for yourself or a gift for a loved one.

My painting represents one person’s story of feeling like they’d swum in “renewing waters” after facing some challenges. Life was beginning again...

Here’s the process beginning with my painting carefully separated into long strips… 

Followed by an image of some of the expertly cut squares...

This is one of the individual and unique squares of my painting...

Each piece is embellished and attached to a 24 carat gold gilded base, signed and numbered... 

Voilà, here’s one piece of Sentiment, beautifully finished and framed, ready to be delivered as a gift for someone special...

Each Sentiment piece arrives in a bespoke black wood frame and includes a photo of the whole painting.

On sale now on my website at £50 plus p&p. here's one of the pieces...

 

Here’s also a link to Bickerton-Grace.

Art lovers, anywhere in the world, who want an affordable gift of art could end up with a piece, as I can send them anywhere!

Please watch the brief video! 

Lots of love, Pam xx

 


Keep your new love alive with these key love-laws...

If you have a new relationship it can go either way - you face the hurdles that come to every couple and grow stronger - are you crash and burn when your sexual chemistry dies down.
 
In my new Wingman Dating App column I have some key love laws to help with your new relationship.
 
 
Happy dating, Pam x
 


My art gallery's nearly ready! Just doing some website testing....

I'm super psyched that my art gallery and shop will be up and running in the next couple days! 

I hope you'll enjoy it, maybe it'll get you creating art. It's been fantastic having people add to my art thread on twitter! 

The writer and broadcaster, Andy West, says: “Pam creates vivid portraits with a multidimensional luminosity to them.” 

I’ve always had a slightly bizarre ‘trait’ of seeing colours and images when people talk to me about their intense emotional experiences. And I finally decided to release these images through painting.

One profound thing I’ve discovered in my work, including interviewing people on radio and television, is the ability for people to hold onto a spark of hope when faced with challenging issues.

Each painting reflects a person’s story and I've tried to capture that in my work – the sometimes dire challenges and yet glimmers of a hopeful spirit.

Thank you for taking the time to look at the gallery once it’s up.

This photo is of a painting called New Lease of Life After Trauma. I interviewed this woman about 15 years ago and after two traumas hitting her in a row, she came out the other side saying she felt “springtime in the air”.

You’ll note the darker shades at the bottom of the painting representing the traumas. Emerging from that area is the spring-flower and plant-like work around the female forms that ‘dance’ across the painting. It’s slightly pagan in feel, like a fertility dance or celebration of life but hopefully it reveals her personal journey.

And here's a close up:

All enquiries to PamSpurrArt@gmail.com

Take care of yourself, Pam x


Met online during lockdown and now your first date's looming? No fear, tips for you!

It must be so nerve wracking having met just before lockdown or during lockdown. And now you're finally going to come face-to-face – at a distance of 2 m, mind you – I have tips for you in my latest Wingman Dating App column.
 
 
Here's an image of a painting about exciting times emerging - on sale soon when my art gallery-shop's completed...
 
 
Enjoy that first date, Pam x
 
 
 


The interview I gave Steven Smith for MilliOnAir magazine...

 
I was super psyched to give an interview about my paintings to writer and broadcaster Steven Smith for the very glamorous MilliOnAir magazine.
 
Steven managed to get me to confess some teenage antics as well as exploring the inspiration for my paintings and some of my favourite artists. Here's the interview, I hope you enjoy it...
 
With the lovely Steven at the private view for my exhibition before lockdown...
 
My art galleries will be up and running very soon. 
 
Take care, Pam x


You're loved up, maybe it's early in your dating, but you've had your first fight...

 
It seemed so perfect until that first disagreement, it's torn you up a bit. No fear I have tips for you in my new  Wingman App dating column. Plus advice on how to argue in an emotionally healthy way.
 
Take care of your new relationship! And this advice applies to longer relationships to, Pam x
 
 
 


Science is unravelling the laws of attraction, here are some insights for you...

Some of the insights that science is giving us into attraction are fascinating. Here are a few thoughts for you in my latest Wingman Dating App column.
 
It might help you understand some of your feelings in the early days even if you're only chatting to someone online during lockdown.
 
Happy dating, Pam x
 
 


My art gallery is coming soon on my homepage...

I'm really excited to get my art gallery up and running soon!

You’d think I’d have finished it during lockdown however I had a bad dose of Covid 19, followed by 10 days of exhaustion (that fatigue is something else) I’m now playing catch up.

Once the gallery’s in place I hope you'll enjoy my work, described as follows by the writer and broadcaster, Andy West: “Pam creates vivid portraits with a multidimensional luminosity to them.” 

I’ve always had a slightly bizarre ‘trait’ of seeing colours and images when people talk to me about their intense emotional experiences. And I finally decided to release these images through painting.

One profound thing I’ve discovered over the years in my work, including interviewing people on radio and television, is the powerful ability for people to cling on to a spark of hope and positivity even when faced with challenging issues.

Each painting reflects a person’s story and I’d be humbled if I manage to capture that in my work – the sometimes dire challenges and yet glimmers of a hopeful spirit.

Thank you for taking the time to look at the gallery once it’s up.

This photo is of a painting called New Lease of Life After Trauma. I interviewed this woman about 15 years ago and after two traumas hitting her in a row, she came out the other side saying she felt “springtime in the air”.

You’ll note the darker shades at the bottom of the painting representing the traumas. Emerging from that area is the spring-flower and plant-like work around the female forms that ‘dance’ across the painting. It’s slightly pagan in feel, like a fertility dance or celebration of life but hopefully it reveals her personal journey.

And here's a close up:

All enquiries to PamSpurrArt@gmail.com

Take care of yourself, Pam x


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