Dr Pam Spurr

Four Fabulous Steps To Improve Your Relationship!

Four Fabulous Steps To Improve Your Relationship!

Here are four steps to take to guarantee happiness in your long-term relationship:

1/ Devise Your Sex Signature!
You should perfect one technique that you know drives him crazy and is an instant turn-on. Your "sex signature" is the one guaranteed technique, when things seem a bit dull in your relationship, that you can use to put a firecracker under it!

2/ Know His Unspoken Communication!

Many men aren’t very good at talking when it comes to the relationship stuff. So it's critical you get to know his body-language signs and signals. For example, what does it mean when he slumps in a chair with his hands shoved in his pocket? Does it mean he's hurt, or angry, or embarrassed? Getting to recognise his unique signs will make a vast difference to long-term communication.

3/ Absence Makes The Heart Grow…

If you’re glued to his hip like a piece of unwanted fluff it spells disaster for any relationship. You should have small, regular "separations". These include a weekly night out with your girl friends, occasional weekends without him to see family or friends, and even occasional holidays with your best pal. Long absences can be destructive but short ones let him know that's he's missing the great thing he has in you.

4/ Neutral Words!

Every couple has arguments and one of the most damaging things in rows is when you scream something you bitterly regret later. For example, in a slanging match once you've mentioned the "B" word - Break-Up - that sticks with your partner. Agree you'll both use neutral words when you’re spitting tacks and scream things like, "you silly banana!" rather than things you can’t take back.