My plans to surprise him in the bedroom backfired spectacularly...
I love it when someone tells me they plan to surprise for their partner - whether it’s a romantic one, practical and helpful one, or a sexy one - we should all do it regularly. But the best plans can backfire and in my ‘Love Clinic’ on iVillage UK I've answered one woman's dilemma about a sexy surprise that ended up a disaster.
She felt humiliated when her plans been wrong and I’ll post a link when it goes live on iVillage site. If you’ve recently been embarrassed in front of a partner in the bedroom it might give you a few things to think about.
TODAY’S TIP: When plans go wrong you have to look at the bigger picture - was it really such a disaster? Can you learn from it? Will an apology help move things on? Can you laugh about it eventually?
Putting things in perspective can take the sting out of it when your plans disappoint you.
Happy Tuesday, Pamx