Is it the right time of year to let someone know you’re attracted to them?
The major theme on people's minds at this time of year is often Christmas stress [obviously quite apart from making plans to spend time with family and friends] but I all so find many people start getting worked up about someone they like, usually at work, and really want to say something about it at this time of year.
All our romantic tendencies come tumbling out with all the Christmas love songs and Christmasy films - so as it's National Agony Aunt Day [as I call it] I've chosen a question about this from Lexi.
Check out my answer to her on my homepage if you're thinking of saying something - or using the office party as a way to make an approach. Or maybe you're worried you might get tipsy and say the wrong thing at the office party.
TODAY’S TIP: letting someone know you're attracted to them is always about choosing the right moment... whether it's Christmas, Valentine’s, or any time of the year - it's all about timing and what you say.
So don't let the idea of spending an intoxicating Christmas with someone new sway your judgment - instead think about the circumstances you two are in and whether or not this really is the right time to let them know.
You don't have to rush these things but so many feel an urgency and rush it and it comes out wrong.
Good luck, Pamx