Oops...a drunken kiss leads to massive guilt & what to do???
Don't forget tomorrow is "National Agony Aunt Day" - the name I give the day I answer one of the lovely e-mails I get! So please get your e-mails into me on my homepage at "e-mail me".
But in the meantime I caught sight of one with an interesting dilemma - basically it's about shenanigans at a wedding last weekend that shouldn't have happened. In brief a woman was at a wedding of an old school friend and saw her very first boyfriend from school days... Think you know where I'm going with this!
Yes, they ended up having a drunken kiss in the carpark [charming!] while her husband and his wife were chatting in the reception.
Her question was whether she should or shouldn't confess to her husband this drunken kiss with her first love after not seeing him for 20 years.
TODAY’S TIP: My gut reaction is say yes – confide - because it's not the end of the world and hopefully after some anger and hurt they could move on.
But then again she swore in her e-mail it was a moment of madness, they didn't even exchange e-mails, and she would never did again. She's full of remorse and feels awful... that kind of feels like punishment enough to me - would love to know what you think?
Why not e-mail me your advice to her in sometime in the next few days I'll post the best e-mail - could be fun, could be interesting!
Happy Wednesday, Pamx