Do you sabotage or are you with someone who's sabotaging your relationship?
Do you sometimes create a little 'mischief' in your relationships? Or maybe a lot of mischief? Do you test someone's commitment to you or maybe try and push them away?
It may be that you’re sabotaging your relationships because ultimately you fear intimacy. Intimacy means putting your heart on a plate and hoping that person looks after it carefully. Or maybe you're with someone who does unexpected things that jeopardise your plans and generally the vibe of your new relationship?
I've just posted a new article under "hot off the press" on my homepage about this.
TODAY’S TIP: if you're doing this, or you're with someone who's doing this, you need to face up to some honest conversations.
By facing up to these things you can sometimes take the fear and anxiety out of your worst worries - like the worry if you get close to someone they're going to automatically hurt you.
If you've been seeing someone for a while you don't want to sabotage the relationship it's time to start opening up this conversation.
Good luck with it! Have a lovely weekend, I'm back briefly on Monday before going away for tuna have weeks - I'll tweet a few tips over the weekend.
Happy weekend, Pamx