Seeing someone new and worried about going to bed with them?
It was fab to chat to Alice Levine last night about what's going on in the Big Brother house - we ran out of time - I was trying to gallop through when I realised we were running short.
But over to you and your relationships ... haven't we all been there? Come out one relationship and down the line start seeing someone else. There comes the time you decide you like each other enough to go to bed together - this might be a few dates for some or much longer for others. Whenever it is, it's easy to lose your bedroom-confidence.
I tackle this potentially daunting situation in my Sex and Love Academy online column in the Sun newspaper. Yes, there are those lucky, super-confident people who don't find sleeping with a new partner nerve-racking at all. [I'll put a live link in later when it goes live on their website]
But for most people there is some worry, anxiety or doubt - will I be any good? Will they be any good? I want this to be a fantastic experience, I hope I don't do anything embarrassing, etc., are common worries.
TODAY’S TIP: Check out my article for lots of tips but one of my top ones is to start as you mean to go on! Definitely let them know what feels good - so they do more of it. And equally move their hands or kisses or strokes away from what doesn't feel good - so they do less of it.
Otherwise you get into that situation where you're faking enjoyment - and that's no good to either of you.
Enjoy your new relationship!
I'll be tweeting a few tips over the weekend and back on Monday, have a good one, Pamx