A dilemma about a flatmate being embarrassed by what she was caught doing…
The questions I get asked never surprise me because someone somewhere is going to be upset, worried or even embarrassed about something.
I tackle what one woman finds very embarrassing today in my Miss Independent Woman website Love Doc page this week. She walked in on her flatmate masturbating and now her flatmate’s giving her the cold shoulder.
If you’re in this situation (well, maybe not this exact situation) I hope my tips help.
TODAY’S TIP: Never be surprised if someone feels embarrassed about something by the reaction - which is often one that seems angry or in this case as if they’re giving the cold shoulder. That’s because their embarrassment has made them feel so uncomfortable that it transmits through their behaviour and body language as something angrier.
Embarrassment and humiliation often leave people feeling they don’t quite know what to do about the situation.
A tactful, honest approach is almost always the way forward.
Take care, Pamx