Bedroom stress. One night stands and colleagues don't always mix...
At 1050 a.m. I'm speaking to the lovely Mark Murphy on BBC radio Suffolk about how various issues affects sexual desire after the age of 40. And again I'm speaking to the equally lovely Annie Othen at 1120 a.m. on BBC radio Coventry and Warwickshire about this same issue. It's pegged on a report about our elders-and-betters and their sex lives after the age of 65 - however as I hear from so many people much younger than that about sexual difficulties – we’re opening up the discussion to include younger age groups. Do listen in online if you're over 40 and struggling in the bedroom.
On to one night stands ...one study found that something like 68% of people have a one night stand - or two - under their belt. And where some people say they have the best sex ever because they know it's only a one night stands so figure they might as well "go for it" - for others it can be more complicated than that... especially when it's a colleague.
Today on my weekly Love Clinic with iVillage UK I've answered one woman's dilemma about being embarrassed about a one night stand she had with a colleague a couple weeks ago. So please do check out my advice if this has happened to you.
TODAY’S TIP: The best thing if you're feeling embarrassed about sleep with a colleague? Take control of the situation - send them a straightforward e-mail saying you'd like to move on and be professional about it. Or plan to pop in to see them and say the same thing.
You can spare your blushes because they're probably feeling the same way.
Good luck sorting it out, Pamx