Do you go into a new relationship looking for something bad to happen?
Happy weekend! Hope the sun is shining for you and if isn't then you make your own sunshine - feeling positive!
A BIG thank you to Kaz for your lovely email - only just saw amongst many - thanks! Appreciate! tweeting about kindness recently and it's an act of kindness like yours that can make someone's day.
So did you actually have any mishaps on Friday the 13th? Let's challenge this myth!
I've just posted a new article on "hot off the press" [on my homepage] that I hope might give you food for thought if you're in a new relationship... It's about always looking for something bad to happen even in the early phases of a relationship.
Check-a-look if you tend to always expect someone to disappoint you.
TODAY’S TIP: I find people get this mindset because they have been disappointed in the past. Sometimes it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy - and you're looking for negatives and so you find negatives that aren't really that bad. Because let's face it we all have "so-called warts" and we take the warts and all.
Go in with a positive mind but mindful of any negative behaviour - rather than going in with a negative mindset and hopefully you find the right balance.
Have a lovely weekend, Pamx