Who would you trust more, a man or woman? Affairs in unexpected places...
Looking forward to chatting to Graham Torrington on his BBC Midlands radio show tonight after 10 PM - about that age-old battle of the sexes - and whether we women can be counted on more than men. Are women more trustworthy and moral? Join the discussion online at BBC Midlands radio.
So it's reported today that the veteran TV presenter Clive James had an eight-year affair - I really feel for Mrs. James but are we that surprise? Some of the seemingly most stable people do some of the strangest and unexpected things.
There are so many reasons why a person decides to have an affair:
Sometimes it's about feeling neglected other times it's about impulsive decision, sometimes it's addictive and other times it's the flattery you may well have been what happened here.
Don't make any big decisions in the immediate aftermath of discovering an affair. You certainly don't want to take revenge and get in trouble yourself when you're spitting tacks and hurt beyond belief!
TODAY’S TIP: here's one little tip to help prevent people feeling neglected - actually look at your partner when they're speaking.
Remember when you could barely take your eyes off them? Within the first few years that eye contact drops dramatically.
But relationship research shows when you don't have eye contact you start drifting apart. If deep down you love them and want the relationship to work then take a moment to look at them as they speak and ask them for their attention when you're speaking.
Take care of your love, Pamx