Turning up the temperature in the bedroom this weekend...
If you want things to get a bit steamy in the bedroom this weekend then check out my Sun newspaper online Sex and Love Academy column - this week an introduction to some basics of oral sex.
There are lots reasons why people get a bit freaked out about giving oral - they worry they won't be any good at it, they worry about the taste, they worry about accidentally hurting their partner.
You can get over these worries and have a blast!
TODAY’S TIP: the very first thing to remember is it's always about starting slowly - with a nice slow build - planting kisses down your partner's abdomen and between their thighs. Then you can pause and ask what they'd like you to do and how they want you to do it.
Never forget safer sex practices if you don't know your partner's sexual history. Slip those condoms on the guys [that's why some are flavoured] - he can still feel your mouth through the condom. And use a dental dam or clingfilm over her - believe me she still gets strong sensations with a small thin barrier like that.
But it prevents cross infection with any STI's or germs harboured in your mouth.
Have a lovely weekend, Pamx