Is a grudge getting you down in the office?
It so easily happens - a colleague does something that annoys another colleague, nothing gets said, feelings have been hurt, anger aroused... and you end up with a grudge on your hands. Just recently I've had a spate of e-mails from people saying they've got problems with the colleague. And it reminds me of how the Dancing on Ice judges Jason Gardiner and Karen Barber had one not rumbled on for two years.
TODAY’S TIP: If you're in the grip of a grudge my first tip is always be the one to make the first move...this may ‘hurt’ but it's a positive being seen to be the one making the first move to solve your grudge. Even if inside you can barely stand the sight of them keep squarely in mind how you’ll look by taking action - you'll come out on top!
Take care of yourself, Pamx