What's this about only seeing one person at a time??
With tomorrow being 29 February [only a man might wonder what's the big deal about that date] I've had an article go live on MSN Her channel today - a little bit of a history of this 4-yearly event - and some thoughts on a woman proposing. Check-a-look if you think a proposal might be on the agenda tomorrow.
Women are catching on to the pluses of dating more than one man at once and a survey found that a quarter of them are dating three at a time! This is a good thing and I'll tell you why - because Stateside they already do this - it's called playing the field. I gave my view on the Huffington Post UK site yesterday about how this takes the pressure off dating in the early stages.
Because let's face it, you have your first date, your second and maybe your third - and you're both eyeing each other up thinking, "Either we’re heading straight into a relationship or we’re not going to get past about the third date."
Why all this pressure to be thinking this is a make or break situation in the first few dates??
This isn't only the prerogative of women - men should do it too!
TODAY’S TIP: If you go to play the field remember it doesn't mean bedding each and every one the people you see!
That's not the point - the point is to take the pressure off and not rush things. It's to have fun getting to know a few different people casually around about the same time.
*Honesty check* - always be honest if someone asks if you're seeing other people - don't hide it. Those extra ‘players’ in your ‘field’ aren't part of the game of hide and seek!
Take care of yourself, Pam x