What your engagement ring signals about you, commitment issues, agony tonight
Had a blast chatting celeb stories with Helen Croydon last night on Let's Talk Sex - including pink starring in a movie about sex addiction, Katie Price and her breakup, and American pie star Jason Biggs and his threesome. We're going behind the stories and discussing the themes relevant to the rest of our lives.
Calling all those wearing engagement rings - check out my engagement ring guide in today's Express newspaper... I've analysed what his choice of ring says about his feelings towards you and your personality.
Tought of this seeing the massive sparkler cricketer Shane Warne gave Liz Hurley. You can't deny there's so much symbolism in an engagement ring!
If you're with a guy who seems to be taking his time about committing then check out my article that's gone live on MSN UK Life and Style channel - there are 10 top signs to watch out for.
Tonight I'm doing my usual agony slot on Sue Marchant's BBC Eastern regions radio show. You can get in touch and text in your dilemma. We discuss all things relationships, love, life and sex.
I've just posted a new "your e-mail of the week" - it's from Joel - very worried about his brother who isn't good with women - far too shy. If this is you then check out my advice – select the “gold star” on my homepage to read the e-mails I post - plus to e-mail me.
TODAY’S TIP: back to engagement rings... so what to do if he presents you with something you'd never wear - a ring you'd never choose for yourself??
This happens frequently and you have to bear in mind it's a ring you're going where the rest of your life (fingers crossed you stay together with the divorce rate in mind).
As always begin on a positive - tell him you love it, you love the thought behind it, but it's, e.g., "impractical" for your day-to-day life, maybe a bit too “dressy" for your casual lifestyle - basically think of an inoffensive way of expressing the fact it just doesn't suit you.
Some people will say you should never ever do this with engagement ring but they're not facing the reality that we all have very different tastes - especially when it comes to jewellery.
Anyhoo if you're getting married you need to start talking about tricky issues!
Good luck, Pam x p.s. happy to see Tinchy pick up a Mobo (along with Dappy) for best video. And the phenomenal Jesse J swept the board