How much time do you two spend arguing?
I was so touched seeing the lovely story of the couple that have been married 70 years [!] ... But as I read more about them I was surprised to find they claim to have argued every day and that their arguing kept them together.
So Angela, Spence and I decided to discuss arguing in relationships in my weekly Heart FM North West and Wales agony slot with them [they are the delightful duo - or should that be dastardly??]. We're chatting at 8:20 AM - listen in if you have a moment - it's always fun chatting to them.
TODAY’S TIP: the most important point about couples who argue a lot is do they actually change the issues they disagree on - or do they keep spinning around and around on the same things?
If you don't make progress you can bet you're probably headed for a breakup.
Those couples that argue, sort something out and maybe argue again about the next issue can be hard to understand. You assume that much arguing and it's going to end in tears. That's not necessarily the case because some couples love that buzz they get off arguing... and make progress on the issues they disagree on.
But it does boil down to making sure you actually deal with the issue, put it aside, make up and fingers crossed the next issue doesn't come up too quickly!
On a different note as one escort in the newspapers claims that both sex and money drove her on in her "successful" business in today's Express a number of "talking heads" disclose which we think is more important...check the bottom of page 21 for my answer :-)
Look after yourself, Pamx