Time to face reality! And ring me tonight with your dilemma...
Last night it was a lot of fun to discuss the celebrities’ behaviour in the Big Brother house with Emma Willis - she always manages to get to the heart of the issue whenever we speak.
It's Tuesday and that means my new Love Clinic column has gone live today on iVillage UK.
This week it's all about facing the reality of the situation? If you meet someone and they tell you they're not looking for a relationship do you live in hope? Hope is a good thing but not when facts are staring you in the face.
It can be incredibly hard to let go of hope when you really like someone as the woman who got in touch with me at iVillage. But if you don't let go of hope it stops you living fully and perhaps prevents you meeting someone who is looking for a relationship too.
Also tonight I'm doing my agony slot on Sue Marchant’s BBC Eastern Regions show at 7:30 PM - you can text your dilemma at 7pm to 81333. Begin your text with Sue followed by your dilemma and you can listen live at BBC Cambridgeshire. You can also ring tonight’s agony slot at 7PM to discuss your issue (you can change your name for anonymity) the number is 0845 30 50 007 - hope you get in touch
TODAY’S TIP: Back to doing a reality check when someone doesn't give you the answer you want in a romantic situation - or other situations. If you've asked the person once and you don't get the answer you're hoping for then leave it for a time - perhaps a few weeks.
By all means then recheck that's how they're still feeling a bit later down the line and if they still give you the same message it's time to get on board with it!
You only waste your time trying to change the situation. Life's too short to live constantly in hope.
Good luck with it, Pamx