Don't make it sloppy seconds, anger management, music to dance to...
If you're getting back with an ex-partner might be worth taking a look at some of the points in my article that's gone live on MSN U.K.'s Him channel. Something like 80% of couples give things a second chance and it's rare for couples to have a completely clean break without doubts about getting back together.
The key thing is don't make it sloppy seconds where neither of you are prepared to change the way you related to each other. It didn't work the first time so something's got a change!
Want a tune to help you switch of stress? Check out Emma’s Imagination - her new track Brighter Greener has such a calming video with it.
Thinking someone needs anger management as Jeremy Paxman was reported using his cool... he's not alone and I fear there are many out there ready to explode/implode, do something regrettable like tweeting/e-mailing a rant they then regret!
I've seen many people for anger management issues and if you check out my Powerful Living area on my homepage you'll find an anger management article... and definitely listen to Emma's Imagination!
Sadly, if only Mubarak had left last week maybe the Egyptians wouldn't be so incensed and now fighting each other - we can only hope things settle down and they sort out a proper democracy.
TODAY’S THOUGHT: Back to break ups - there are lots of reasons why you might want to try again but definitely don't go back just because you're lonely. You need to give yourself time to heal your broken heart and eventually you'll start enjoying your company again and find someone new.
Very excited as a friend's 40th birthday party tomorrow night – it’s going to be fun – we’re all clubbing- getting the dancing shoes dusted off! Such milestone birthdays can be daunting for some - personally I think you're as old as you feel!
I'm sure I'll be asking the DJ to play a couple of my favourite tunes to dance to - like Usher’s OMG – love it! Then again besides R&B and pop classics I could then do something like Neon Trees' Animal - happy tune or even Nirvana's Smells like teen spirit...always prepared to make a fool of myself on the dance floor!
Happy Friday, Pam X