From ‘bit on the side’ to blow jobs...
Fab to chat with the gorgeous Emma Willis last night on Big Brother’s It on the Side - mainly about Denise and Michael and why they've had such conflict.We had fun with our special "apparatus" for our chat.
Even if on paper two people might look like they get along - both Denise and Michael are successful actors - the chemistry between you in real life can paint a very different story.
Yay, got tix to see James Corden in One Man, Two Guvnors - has had rave reviews.
Later today on my Love Clinic on iVillage UK I tackle a woman's dilemma about her boyfriend and blow jobs. He's doing the classic moves of just pushing her head in what he sees as the "right" direction - south - she feels very differently!
TODAY’S TIP: the first rule of oral sex is "to give is as good as to receive" - it's a two-way street and you can't expect to get oral sex if you're not going to give it.
Next, be gentle and loving about encouraging your bed-mate to go down on you. Pushing their head [either him pushing her head or vice versa] is just bad manners. Give them some oral first and then ask in sexy tones to have it back.
If they’re still ‘resistant’ you've got to think about personal hygiene and whether yours is good enough down below.
Or is it that they're worried they don't really know how to do it - and just need some gentle suggestions about what works for you.
Have fun, Pam x