Are you asexual and find it challenging? Is your partner's sex drive stronger than yours?
In today's Sun newspaper I've commented on a sexuality and how stigmatised this is. Check out the link so you can read these women's stories in my view at the end of it. If you feel alone with this please do get support from AVEN - you are not alone if you feel this way about sex - not wanting it, not caring about it. It's challenging in our society full of sexualised messages to feel this way - but you shouldn't, you're entitled to the way you feel.
Now for the other side of the coin, I'm never surprised when I hear from someone that their partner has a higher or lower sex drive than they do. Let's think about this from a practical level: when you meet someone does one or other of you sleep better? Does one or other of you have more energy? Does one or other you have a better appetite? Right! And the same holds true for sex so I never think a couple should be surprised when one or other has a higher drive.
It's Thursday so it's National Agony Aunt Day and I've answered one woman's dilemma [‘Lucy’] about this. Take a look on my homepage at the "dilemma I've answered this week” if this applies to you.
TODAY’S TIP: No matter the problem if you always look at it at the most basic level as I've just mentioned above with sex drive it off and puts it in perspective. Unfortunately we feed worry about any given issue by blowing up abortion. Strip it back and look at the brass tacks! I'm sure you'll see a solution or steps to a solution.
Have a thrilling Thursday, Pamx