Is it possible to have too much foreplay?
So often women complain that they don't get enough foreplay from their partner. They'd do anything to up their ‘quotient’ of foreplay-action to give them a better chance at reaching climax.
I've tackled the opposite issue - having too much foreplay - in my Love Clinic at iVillage UK today. The reason I've tackled this issue is because one woman got in touch about her boyfriend's incessant demand to give her loads of foreplay every time they have sex. There's never a quickie, there's never even a semi-quickie ... it's always a full on 40 minutes of foreplay before full sex commences.
Yes, many women will be eating their hearts out, but this isn't the first I've had women [and sometimes men] anxious about this situation... quite frankly so much foreplay can be exhausting!
TODAY’S TIP: if your partner insists on foreplay that seems to gone for ever and makes you feel exhausted by it then actively try to 'set up' a situation where you two have to have quicker sex. For instance, when you know that one of you has to go out to a meeting in 30 minutes, that's the time to initiate a quickie.
This shows them how much fun something quicker can be.
If they don't start getting the hint that sometimes you want faster foreplay then you'll have to tactfully and sensitively bring up this conversation.
Good luck with it, Pamx