What methods do you use to get what you want from your partner?
On a scale from completely direct to completely manipulative most of us fall somewhere on the middle - and hopefully nearer to "direct" - when it comes to the methods we used to get what we want from our partner.
On my Love Doc slot today at 8:05 AM with Angela and Spence on the Heart Northwest and Wales breakfast show we're chatting about these methods. I'm sure you might recognise yourself in a few of them.
A classic method - especially with a new partner - is to "flirt for favours"... I'm sure you can guess but I mean! Ultimately in a long-term relationship direct communication is better than manipulative communication.
TODAY’S TIP: Why not start being a bit more direct but obviously in a non-demanding way. Tell them you'd like help with whatever it is and you'd like to help them with something in return.
Practise makes perfect so think through what you want to ask for and how you can best ask for it.
Take care of yourself, Pamx