Who's responsible for mean behaviour in girls, making excuses for avoiding sex...
So who's responsible for mean behaviour in girls? Bad example from their parents? Influence of other kids? Or is it celebrities and social networking?
It's a complicated call I've commented in today's Sun newspaper about. Frankly, mean girls have been around since the dawn of time - when I was a child I can remember how you'd be in one day and out the next - you can't blame it all on modern social networking and celebrities who have falling is out.
There are far too many celebrities who have great female friendships like TVs Golden girl Holly Willoughby and BBC radio 1’s Fearn Cotton.
My weekly Love Clinic will go to live later today on iVillage UK - today I've tackled a woman's dilemma where she's making excuses not to have sex with her boyfriend... because he doesn't turn her on.
Never make excuses! It's not fair to you and it's not fair to him.
TODAY’S TIP: if someone's not doing it for you [a man or a woman] you can try leading them with your hand to touching you in places that work. Or with their mouths getting them to kiss you in a way that you like, etc.
And if that doesn't work then you need to soft sell improving their technique - always begin with a positive and tell them what they do right and then make an out be suggestion for changing what's wrong.
If that doesn't work you may have to have a heart to heart if you want to save the relationship - because faking it over a long period is a love-killer.
Take care, Pamx