Girl-crushes versus style-crushes! From sulking to the silent treatment and worse...
If you're a woman and your honest you'd probably admit to a girl crush on another woman - but now your girl-crush may compete with your style-crush. Style-crushes are where you're enthrall to another woman because of her incredible fashion sense and you admire the way they take fashion and make it their own. I have an awful lot of style-crushes as one thing I like is style - you've never seen such a crazy assortment of styles as in my wardrobe!
In today's Sun newspaper I've commented on the difference between girl-crushes and style-crushes - a bit of fun.
I couldn't believe the response on Woman's hour yesterday to the topic of sulking when Jenni Murray interviewed me.
Responses ranged from people thinking the sulking was only for children [and mostly they are right] to people who confessed to being serial sulkers controlling those around them.
I find these conversations helpful because when you start identifying with someone else's story and think, "hang on a minute, I do that", then that may be the kick up the backside you need to start to change.
TODAY’S TIP: Never let fear hold you back - and in this case, hold you back from starting to change. If you've been relating as a "sulker" it may daunting to think it's time you changed and actually discuss what's troubling you... instead of sulking on it.
I love the quote 'there's nothing to fear but fear itself' - hang onto that thought when you're feeling that way.
Enjoy the three day weekend here in the UK! I'll be back here on Tuesday, Pamx