Discovering the twist on an affair...
it's horrible enough discovering your partner's had an affair - the heartache is enormous. And the heartache is followed by anger, bitterness and more pain.
For couples who decide they want to stay together the big question is: how do we find our way back from this?
But what about when the 'love cheat' asks you if they can continue the affair?
Sounds pretty crazy, right? Later today when my weekly Love Clinic goes live on iVillage UK [will link to it later when it does] you can see my answer to a woman who's been put in this situation.
TODAY’S TIP: Thinking of affairs - the very first step when you've discovered one is not to make big decisions. When your head and heart are reeling that's not the time to decide to move out, etc.
Instead get support from a trusted friend or family member while you roll with the punches.
On my homepage you can look through the articles on ‘powerful loving’ as there are a couple on getting over an affair.
Look after yourself, Pamx ps I won't be posting anything for the next couple days as I've got a shoulder operation [long story but all due to a bad accident a few years ago - this is just a minor, hopefully final op] probably best not to write when I've had a general anesthetic - who knows what I would say!