As Taylor Swift gets close to new man Tom Hiddleston...
If you could see my email-bag and how many emails I get from people worried about going to bed with a new love for the first time, you'd know this is a common worry.
No fear, in my Sun newspaper online column I've got some top tips for you.
Be confident, be ready and only have great sex, nothing less.
Have fun, Pam x
Be confident, be ready and only have great sex, nothing less.
Have fun, Pam x