Thinking of a threesome? And are you too anxious to have the breakup conversation?
If you’re thinking of having a threesome - like one in 10 people have - then check out the piece in the Sun newspaper today about threesomes where I’ve commented. The stats are pretty surprising - lots of couples are trying three-way fun.
Onto breakups: too many people get anxious about breaking up with someone to the point where they try and force a breakup without actually facing the issue. Of course it’s never nice to have a conversation where you’re saying you don’t want to be with someone – it’s a basic rejection.
But you grow as a person when you learn to handle these things instead of some of the “nifty” ways to leave your lover I get told in my line of work. At 8:05 AM this morning I’m revealing some of these on my ‘love doc’ slot with Spence and Fiona at Heart radio North Wales and West.
I hope you can listen in online.
TODAY’S TIP: if you need to give someone this bad news then choose your moment wisely, make sure it’s not ‘alcohol fuelled’ so you end up saying the wrong thing. Then tactfully let them know why you’re moving on. You don’t have to tear their heart apart but you also should be able to face these things as a grown-up.
Take care of yourself, Pamx