Can you affair proof your relationship? Men who use sex workers.Plus GIVEAWAY!
My fortnightly Sun newspaper online column today tackles this. Check out the tips but also there is a fabulous Ann Summers giveaway for two lucky readers.
That’s my aim – spread some happiness for the weekend with a giveaway.
Plus - I have some concerns about men who use sex workers almost exclusively. There’s a place for sex workers and men use them for many different reasons - but I’m always concerned when someone uses them exclusively. How does such a man relate to real women when he decides he wants a relationship?
I’ve commented on one man’s story in today’s Sun.
TODAY’S TIP: If you’re that rare man who believes they never want to have a relationship with a woman - and you do have a sex drive - there’s nothing wrong with paying sex workers as long as you practice safer sex and do it all safely.
But if you think you might want to have a relationship at some point then you need to think carefully about how very different having a full relationship and sex life is with a woman compared to the sex workers you pay to fulfil your needs.
It’s a very naive man who doesn’t think their behaviour towards sex workers - they’re selling a commodity, he’s buying it - will ever impact on the way they treat women generally.
Take care of yourself, Pamx