Tempted to go back to a fling?
Flings can serve a very satisfying purpose - for both people concerned to let go and have great sex. The best kind of fling is when both people go into it with their eyes open knowing it is what it is. How about when you want to go back for a second fling? I tackled this dilemma in my weekly Love Clinic on iVillage UK - do check out my advice to this woman if you're in this situation.
Her situation is complicated by this man now kind of involved with someone else. Sounds to me a bit like he's a player... Not a good sign if you're going back because you really liked the person.
TODAY’S TIP: Always know what you're getting into - two key things spring to mind: 1/ feeling in control because you're being honest with yourself and the person you want to have the fling with. 2/ And staying confident - knowing your mind and being able to speak it even when the issue is a bit sensitive like where the fling is going.
Happy loving, Pamx