Dr Pam Spurr

He was caught watching porn...

If ever there was a dilemma that has quadrupled in my Agony Aunt email bag it’s mainly men being caught out watching porn by their partner. On my ‘Love Doc’ slot today at 8:05 AM with Angela and Spence on the Heart Northwest and Wales breakfast show we’re tackling this. Bearing in mind it’s a breakfast show with lots of parents on the school run with their children we’ll  have to handle it carefully - but I’ll be providing a couple tips for coping with the situation.

TODAY’S TIP: if this happens to you, you may feel like panicking and making a rash decision about your relationship because you feel betrayed and maybe a whole range of other emotions like perhaps feeling sexually rejected. However it may be your partner only occasionally watches porn and it may not be a real problem.

An honest conversation will help you get to the bottom of it but if they react in an agitated and angry way it may be that you’ve discovered a secret of theirs that they didn’t want you to. That’s when it gets serious.

Good luck, Pamx