Your feelings and no strings sex, oh oh heaven...
Are you in a casual no-strings sex "relationship" and want more? Seems to happen more often to women - but it happens to guys too.
I have strong feelings on this - have covered this dilemma in my Love Clinic on iVillage UK that goes live later today. Check-a-look if you're wondering how to handle such feelings.
Pres Obama's going to be in oh-oh-heaven if reports wife Michelle spent 32K(!) in the New York outlet of one of our finest UK lingerie makers are true...she's one lucky lady - I'm a super-Obama fan.
TODAY’S TIP: back to no-strings sex and starting to care about the relationship - what mega-bothers me is people thinking there's something ‘wrong’ with their developing feelings.
What's wrong with developing feelings for someone you're giving your body to? Why wouldn't you develop feelings in most cases in this situation? You share fun, warmth, affection...why not love?
Yep, of course, for various reasons some people simply want no-strings sex - that's their business - but for most people these relationships are slipped into - but not thought out.
Don't be ashamed if your feelings develop - the person you're sleeping with should understand this even if they don't return them.
Don't put yourself down for having real, genuine, loving feelings!
Take care, Pam x