Do you spend too much? Do you over-think relationships?
You may not think it's a problem or that being the shopaholic is "real" but it is for some people. It's no laughing matter when people get into debt or even go bankrupt. I've commented on this in today'sSun newspaper. (Link to Sun) (And as of today I'll link articles when I can!)
My first tip is to not keep it secret any longer. If you're running up debt you've got to tell your nearest and dearest.
Moving on to your love life, have you had some unhappy or unsatisfying relationships and now you're in a new one? Does your mind keep comparing your past relationships with this one?
If you’re overthinking your new relationship take a look at my weekly Love Clinic at iVillage UK (goes live later today)as I tackle one woman's dilemma about this issue.
TODAY’S TIP: so many of us are guilty of overthinking about love. And we often overthink down the wrong path. We make up all sorts of things about what might be going on in the other person's mind and none of them are right!
Instead of overthinking a new relationship how about just going with the flow, relax for a bit and don't worry about it turning into a big love affair overnight.
You've got more chance of developing into a strong healthy relationship if you take that approach.
Happy Wednesday, Pamx