Is infidelity on your mind?
What with infidelity in the press over the last week [stories about Robert Pattinson and Kristen Stewart and Anthea Turner and Grant Bovey] I've had a lot of queries about people feeling suspicious.
If you've had even the slightest worry unfortunately reading a stream of stories like this in the press exacerbates your worries - it pricks your subconscious and potentially blows out of proportion the little niggles you have.
Of course suspicions may have a genuine basis. But the flurry of questions I've had about how to tell if someone's unfaithful has definitely increased over the last week.
TODAY’S TIP: Ultimately if you don't have hard proof like text messages, etc., you need to do an intuition check. What exactly is your intuition telling you? Why do you think it's telling you that? Is your partner actually behaving differently? Or perhaps you've had jealousy issues in the past and tend to blow things out of proportion it's happening again?
If you honestly consider these questions and still come up with doubts about your partner it's time to put it on the table.
Choose the time when you two won't be interrupted, sit them down and explain your worries. Hopefully they'll reassure you and have a good explanation for any behaviour that's been out of character. Or you might be able to tell from their reaction if they're hiding something.
You need strength in this case to continue getting to the bottom of their behaviour - I wish there was an 'infidelity wand' you could wave across your partner that would tell you if they're being honest or not!
There's no such thing and the nearest thing you have without real evidence is the magic wand of your intuition
Here's hoping it's all a storm in a teacup and nothing to worry about, Pamx