Shocked by her suggestion to wife swap...
You'd think since people have been talking about swinging, sex parties, group sex, etc. for the last few decades that people would know where they stand. But that's not human nature and it still can be confusing when someone suggests this to you and your partner. In my Miss Independent Woman website Love Doc page this week I've tackled one woman's anxiety about another couple wanting to do this with her and her husband. Maybe my thoughts will be of help to you if you're in this situation.
TODAY’S TIP: Here we go again... I always say it's important for your well-being and self-esteem that you never give into a sexual request that causes you upset or anxiety.
Sometimes there are ways of compromising especially if it's your partner who wants to try swapping or going to the sex party, etc. For instance, maybe you can compromise by occasionally watching a porn video about group sex.
It can be trickier when an outsider makes a suggestion - as in the dilemma I've tackled this week - because you or your partner might be interested in this suggestion. This can suddenly reveal to a couple that one partner - or the other - wants to experiment. This can feel very threatening to the partner who doesn't want to experiment.
If your relationship is strong enough and you're willing to communicate honestly there's a good chance you can sort out your sexual differences.
Look after yourselves over the weekend, Pamx