Do you or your partner want to go a bit kinky in the bedroom?
In my work I constantly hear from people who either want to try something a bit kinky her with their partner or whose partner has asked them and they are a little bit unsure of it.
Being asked to try something new and different - that pushes the boundaries a bit on your bedroom behaviour - can make a partner feel anxious. Due to all these requests for tips and suggestions I've tackled this in my Sun newspaper online Sex and Love Academy column. If this is on your mind or on your partner's do take a look at my tips.
TODAY’S TIP: We're already under enormous pressure to ‘perform’ in the bedroom because we think everyone else is having a grand old time. It seems the rare couple that doesn't worry about this. The most important tip is to think about your secret desire and how you could put it across to your partner without them feeling they don't satisfy you in bed.
Doing it in a loving, caring and flirty/sexy way and you'll probably be successful...here's to a bit of kinky love for you this weekend!
I'm back Monday and will tweet a few tips over the weekend, take care, Pamx