Received a wedding invitation you don’t want… but don’t want to offend?
There are times when a wedding invitation arrives where instead of feeling delighted you’ve been included, your heart sinks. If you have a problem with socialising over long periods (and it's a full day event) or perhaps physical needs that make socialising difficult it’s understandable you might want to turn down the invitation.
However if you’re just being a bit selfish thinking, “why does my friend have to have an all-day event when I’m so busy in my life?” Then I say think about how much your friend means to you and set aside this selfish attitude. It’s their big day and they want to include you - and you should go along and help them celebrate.
We’re discussing these issues on my ‘Love Doc’ slot today at 8:20 AM with Angela and Spence on the Heart Northwest and Wales breakfast show. If you’ve got a wedding invitation dilemma I hope you can listen in on the net.
TODAY’S TIP: In the meantime set aside any selfish feelings and think about your friendship and how as a good friend you should help them celebrate their wedding in the way they want to.
They might feel the same when they receive your wedding invitation but hopefully they’ll happily help you have a fantastic day.
Must I say friendships are important so look after yours, Pamx