Those datinig tips for singles...
It was great to have a few minutes this morning on Daybreak at 6:50 AM to chat about tips to find love. But the second slot at 8:10 AM obviously had to be cancelled due to the extra news of the tragic helicopter crash in Norfolk.
So here are the date tips I had prepared for that slot. Put these into practice and you should have more success looking for love. My fingers are crossed for you!
1/ YOUR ROMANTIC CHECKLIST - think about your checklist and you’ll probably find you can dump the frivolous and shallow things. Does someone really have to have a particular type of hair or be a certain height? Your checklist holds you back from potential partners.
2/ WIDEN CIRCLE OPPORTUNITY - if you keep going to the same old places and you’re still looking for love then obviously this hasn’t worked. So live by the rule that ‘new places equals new faces’. Find some new places to go, hobby or interest of sports group to join and widen your circle of opportunity.
3/ USE CONNECTIONS - yes you vast family and friends to keep an eye open for you in the past. But remember they can get complacent and you and your quest for love aren’t necessarily on their mind. Remind family, friends colleagues that if they come across any singles to keep you in mind for an introduction. A personal introduction is one of the three most common ways to find love.
4/ YOUR VIBE - think about the vibe you give out - is it over keen / intense - that can put people off. Or is it laid back / maybe even disinterested? The balance you want to strike is friendly, a bit flirty and interested in them. And remember how you’re feeling inside is reflected in your body language so keep in mind when you’re out and about the things you have to offer someone.
5/ ONLINE PROFILES - relationship research shows that many people fib on their online dating profile - so to spare your disappointment take what they say with a pinch of salt!
There are lots of other tip I could give but these are some key ones, Pam x