Money issues surface in so many ways for couples...
You'd think in 2012 it wouldn't matter who earned more when it comes to couples - but that's not the case for many couples as a fair few men get insecure if their partner earns more. And women can hold particular attitudes towards money to as in the article I've just posted about this under "hot off the press" if you're going through this.
It’s about "Maggie" who is old-fashioned at heart and worried about a new promotion - it meant she was paid more than her long-term boyfriend.
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TODAY’S TIP: Back to money, as money is cited in a third of divorces as being one of the major issues that caused problems a couple these things should be taken seriously when they arise.
As with most tricky issues you can take the sting out with some simple, tactful honesty.
Life would be a lot easier if early on couples discuss their attitudes towards money and if they held any particular attitude like whether it matters who earns more. So if you're starting out in a new relationship bear this in mind.
If you've already got troubles in your relationship over money then sit down for a relaxed heart to heart without any finger pointing.
Happy Wednesday, Pamx