Some incredible, touching stories...
I had a lovely response to my iVillage UK article yesterday about getting into a new relationship after you've been bereaved. I had a number of touching e-mails from people like "Rebecca" who despite initial guilt ended up falling in love after a loss.
Guilt is such a normal reaction for the person left behind to feel when they get an inkling that they may be ready to relate again. They fight that feeling that’s in their gut that somehow they're betraying their loved one who has passed on.
They're not - and after an acceptable amount of time - and acceptable varies from social group social group - they should feel good about themselves that they can love again.
Whether you're brokenhearted from a breakup or brokenhearted from a bereavement remember life is to be lived and cherish your time.
TODAY’S TIP: if you feel you're ready to test the waters of a new relationship then believe this - that is a fantastic thing!
Never be ashamed of being ready to love again but if guilt persists discuss your feelings with that new person or a trusted friend.
Take care of yourself, Pamx