He does all the work in bed!
Sometimes people end up doing all the work in bed because the other person hasn't a clue where to start.
Inwardly the partner making the effort thinks: "I wish they'd take the lead, I wish they'd show me what they like," and all those kinds of things. Frustrating!
In my Miss Independent Woman Magazine column I've answered one woman's question about this today. Check it if you're shy of letting go in the bedroom.
Happy Friday, Pamx