Are you suffering from stage fright... in the bedroom
It's Thursday and that's the day I carve out time to look through your e-mails and post one. You can get in touch with your dilemmas or views on my homepage at "your e-mail of the week" by selecting the Goldstar.
Today I've chosen an e-mail from Tom as I think many men [and their girlfriends/partners] will know how he's feeling... He gets ‘stage fright’ as he calls it before sex.
Hope Meatloaf has recovered from falling ill on Loose Women yesterday. Crikey I know they're feisty females but they're not that scary! Joking aside I wish him better.
TODAY’S TIP: you might look at the man in your life and think he's wonderful but if he feels doubtful about his "performance" [I hate that word in relation to sex] you can bet it's going to affect every moment from when one of you starts initiating a little foreplay.
If he seems hesitant let him know how much you love him and the way he touches you.
And if you're a guy like Tom and are feeling a bit of stage fright, take your time and focus on her pleasure - that'll take your mind off your own insecurity.
Look after yourself, Pam x