Dilemma: Have I put him off with my aloof behaviour?
As it’s what I call 'National Agony Aunt Day' I’ve chosen a random dilemma to answer today - many thanks for your emails!
This is from someone I’m calling Katie since she didn’t leave name. And it’s about the miscommunications a common when you are attracted to someone.
TODAY’S TIP: if there’s someone who acts slightly odd around you at work think through the likely scenarios - could it be they get tongue tied because they like you? Or could it be they feel awkward in social settings?
Or maybe you have a ‘rep’ for being a bit forceful or assertive and so base tread carefully around you.
Look for the clues because it may be something very positive - like finding you attractive!
Best wishes, Pamx