Are you being pressured to put your sex life on film?
Once upon a time, long ago taking a naughty-snap of your selves seemed like a really big deal. Girls on film, guys on film was daring.
Then every mobile included a camera, every camera became easy to use and increasingly couples photographed or filmed themselves during sex.
That's fine if you both want to - and know what's good happened to the pictures if you break up. But what about when you don't want to be caught on film? I tackled this in my Love Clinic on iVillage UK today. The woman who e-mailed me did not want to be filmed by her boyfriend because she knew he previously shared pictures of his ex-girlfriends with others... I think she's wise not to trust him!
TODAY’S TIP: the problem is when you care for someone, particularly early in a relationship when you might be learning how to assert yourself in it, it feels a very big deal to say no to someone. Let me say one thing - it shouldn't be! You should never do anything that makes you uncomfortable when it comes to sex.
And if you do want to film or photograph what you get up to the bedroom, watch it and enjoy it afterwards but then delete it! Better to be safe than sorry.
Take care of yourself, Pamx