Swinging, overly flirtatious behaviour...
It's December and I hope you're practising some deep breathing as the Christmas pressure cooker gets under way. My chocolate Advent calendar has been started!
Looking forward to chatting to Vanessa Feltz on her BBC radio London show at 11:45 AM today about new mums losing their sex drive...hardly surprising is it? The key is to keep communication open with your partner so you both know how the other is feeling.
Are you and your partner thinking about dabbling in some kinky sex? With other people? In today's Express newspaper I've outlined how you might open a Pandora's box of difficult emotions - my advice is to tread very carefully you have the confidence of steel and huge amount of respect for each other then it might just work.
It's Thursday so I've just posted a new "your e-mail of the week" - check it out on my homepage by selecting the gold star - and get in touch! Today it's from Kevin his new girlfriend is overly flirtatious after a few drinks. Check it out for a few tips if you're in this situation.
TODAY’S TIP: The fantasy is usually so much better than the reality when it comes to trying kinky sex - if you two want to spice things up in a good thing is to play out some of your fantasies but only between the two of you.
Why not use the "strangers in the night" fantasy? Meet up at a bar or club and pretend you don't know each other. Chat each other up as if you're both already attached - but you're looking for a one night stand. Then go home and have some raunchy sex - maybe that'll keep you from straying into swingers' territory that so often doesn't work out.
Have fun, Pam