Back to Celebrity Big Brother tomorrow He surprised me during sex...
Tomorrow [Saturday] I'm heading over to the Big Brother studios for my last expert slot - can't believe the summer of 'bruv' is nearly over. There's so much going on with the housemates in the last few days that we'll have plenty to talk about - we always run out of time!
Over to relationships and sometimes a partner will suddenly do something in the middle of sex that surprises you. It's completely unexpected and something they've never done before. It may be that they didn't intend to upset you but perhaps it did. Or sometimes a partner thinks they can try something on using "surprise" tactics... Never a good idea!
In my Miss Independent Woman website Love Doc page this week I've tackled this problem. In this particular dilemma the woman was surprised when her partner tried to slip his finger up her backside. My thoughts and advice for her are in the link.
TODAY’S TIP: I've mentioned "bedroom etiquette" before and it includes not surprising a partner with something new and different. It's plain bad manners if you want something quite different and just plunge on ahead.
Definitely hint, ask or suggest - but don't just go for it.
Take care, Pamx