Should you tell a person their partner is cheating?
It's Thursday and the first National Agony Aunt Day of 2013 - each Thursday I answer one question [pretty much at random] from my mailbag. You can e-mail me on my homepage. Thank you all for your e-mails and am sorry I can't answer them all! Obviously I work full time and run my website myself and it's a pleasure to answer one week but impossible to do more than that.
This week I'm answering one from "Jodie" because her dilemma resonates with what's going on right now at this time of year - many people strike up affairs as I wrote about in Sunday's Sun newspaper and here on Monday.
Becky's dilemma is that the man who took her out turned out to be married and she would like to tell his wife. It that resonates with something you're going through do take a look at my advice to her.
TODAY’S TIP: If you discover the person you've been innocently seeing actually has a partner then there's two things to remember about them: they are a liar, they are prepared to cheat on the person who should mean the most to them.
So even if you have fallen head over heels and it's a passionate fling - do you really want that sort of person as a long-term partner? As so many people find out when a person cheats and moves on to the next person - they often end up cheating on that person.
Set your sights higher and find someone who's single.
Take care, Pamx