Wedding around the corner and the jitters have set in?
Thoroughly enjoyed my agony hour on Sue Marchant's BBC Eastern regions show last night - the first Monday of every month we answer e-mails, texts and phone calls. Last night we tackle problems with ex-partners, shyness and sleep and dreaming. I'll flag up next month how to get in touch.
Are you getting married this summer? Wedding season is upon us and as an agony aunt I hear from women and men who are starting to feel nervous. Typical questions people worry over include: are they really the love of my life? Do I love them enough to stick by them through thick and thin?
I've tackled this common dilemma in my Love Clinic on iVillage UK I've advised a woman who's been with her fiancé for four years - and after a year of planning a big wedding she’s getting freaked out - to use her words.
Not only are some nerves to be expected but even real wobbles are fairly frequent. Most crucial thing is don't panic and let your fears snowball into something more - tall order but true!
TODAY’S TIP: As long as it's not a major crisis that's set off your nerves [like you've discovered your fiancé is dishonest or something] than the first tip is to start a daily "habit" of taking a few moments to remind yourself why you fell in love, what great personality traits your fiancé has, and the good things you two share.
Sometimes it can take the worry out of wedding wobbles by focusing on these three good positive things.
Other tips in my Love Clinic.
Take care, Pamx